Rayna is absolutely right, Anthony. abusers often try to isolate their
victims so nobody finds out.  Just make sure YOU stay clear of this man, as
violent abusers will turn it on when feeling threatened. 

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> [Original Message]
> From: Rayna <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Date: 3/22/2006 8:50:33 PM
> Subject: Re: I need some more advice
>
> Get in touch with her local advocacy group - esp if there is one for 
> women with disabilities.  Also, contact (several if possible - more 
> chance of getting one that has dealt with pwd's) the local domestic 
> violence service.  Her husband is clearly trying to isolate her from 
> support and help - a classic abusive tactic, dangerous for anyone, extra 
> dangerous for someone with a disability.  It may sound harsh, but her 
> family *needs* to find out what to do, they've got no excuse not to, 
> this woman is clearly at risk and needs help to get away from her husband.
>
> Rayna
>
>
> Anthony Arnold wrote:
>
> >My friend's parents currently spend their winters in Arizona, and come
back
> >here April - September (I think).  Both of her sisters live here in town
> >with their families, and I know that one is a nurse at the hospital.  She
> >also has a brother who lives in a nearby town.  They know about the
> >situation but I think they're not sure of what to do.  
> >
> >Thanks, 
> >Anthony 
> >Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> >  
> >