Hey Phil,
You know that you and Sandy have been more than fair with her.  You have
given her every chance.  I know that is little consolution right now but
don't blame yourselves because she has had many opportunities.  I will keep
praying for her to have a change of heart and attitude.
God bless you and keep the faith.
Virgie and Hoshi
----- Original Message -----
From: "Phil Scovell" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Sunday, January 08, 2006 11:47 PM
Subject: Report on meeting with Gretchen


>I had about a 30 minute talk with her and gave her until January 16 on
> Monday, a week from this coming Monday, to be moved out.  I told her
> things
> were not adding up concerning her behavior nor was she fulfilling her
> agreements of several months ago.  I also told her that her X husband may
> not want to travel across town to put her youngest son in my sister's
> Christian school, which Sandy and I are paying for and Gretchen hasn't
> ever
> once put a dime on the bill, but if he ends up in public school, it is
> Gretchen's fault and not mind.  I asked two point blank questions during
> the
> talk and she never answered.  She said nothing the whole time.  You would
> think your children would make you ask for more time or ask for another
> change in the scheduling or would make you ask for help but she said
> nothing.  Now Sandy is crying, Taylor, the 6 year old is crying, probably
> my
> 10 year old grandson, and I feel like it myself.  I know the Lord is
> crying
> about it.  The damn devil anyhow.
>
> Phil.
>
>
> Jesus Is Your Problem, Not The Devil.  Luke 12:5
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