Cindy,

That is a healthy response in my opinion. I particularly like what you
said... "I'm still standing tall because no matter what, I know God has an
awesome plan for my future." He does. And not letting the success or
failure of another's success  to accomplish what God has for you is not
wise, I believe that is what you meant by stating you weren't going to be
a dart board for another's insecurities. Good call. You   know it is us
folks that have been married a long time that answer "nothing" when
asked  about something we don't want to answer hahahaha. Seriously we
ought not do that either but I suspect it is because we are trying to
avoid a confrontation because we know each other's reaction so well.

Brad