Jenifer,
Great news! Congratulations! We have been missing you here on the list.
You know that it is all right to tell Jeremy about the list and for him to
join.  We welcome all who wish to join the list.

What did you mean by "vi"?
You wrote:

I'm getting married on november 5.  He is a christian and we have actually
known each other for 3 years.  God is good.  His name is Jeremy.  He is
VI... can I tell him about the list?  I think it would be good for him to
join.

Keep us posted on how things are coming along.

Ned