Perhaps your warning or suggestion prior to your mom's latest event speaks
much louder to them now that this occured. Denial, coverage and such are
just as much part of one being an enabler as the one dependent upon the
drugs. It is our own ideals that love is a fussy warm thing supported by
media, Hollywood and Hallmark cards *smile*, real love means one will do
what is necessary even though it is not popular or pleasureable if it is a
needed thing to do.

Brad


Brad


on 05:35 AM 3/29/2005, Rhonda said:
Thanks for all your messages,
the sad thing about all of this is, I just talked to my Dad Saturday and
told him he really needed to check in to a drug rehab center for Mom,  and
then this happens!
I know it isn't always easy to do the right thing, and loving someone
doesn't mean you always do what they want, I am sure Mom didn't want to go
in to a drug rehab center and she probably talked my Dad in to thinking
she
would do better!
sometimes love must be tough though, I am sure Kathy knows what I mean!

How is Chris doing n ow that he is home?
Praying for all of you,
Rhonda