Kathy,

Everybody is praying for you guys and Chris, too.  I have been in court with
my daughter several times.  Right now, you and Greg have done the only thing
you could do.  You are not to blame and you did nothing wrong.  It is just
the Enemy trying to destroy.  I am not going to tell you to stand strong or
keep your chin up or to hang in there because none of those words ever
helped me.  Cut yourself loose, Kathy, and just let yourself fall.  Jesus is
right where you are right now and He is also right where Chris is.  Some
day, Chris will recognize Jesus already suffered all these things for him so
he doesn't have to do it himself.  Right now, he is just a deceived young
man.  Thank God, he has parents on the outside that still love him but that
said, we cannot allow them to destroy the rest of our family.  I kicked
Gretchen out more than once because of her sinful behavior.  Yes, it seemed
to take a long time but she's back now and walking with the Lord.  You can
cry all you want, mom, for your son.  I bet Mary did a lot of crying for her
Son and she knew who He was and what He had come to do.  Yet, even though
her own salvation depended upon what her Son was going to do, I am sure she
cried for her Son a lot.  I know your heart is broken but Jesus knows how to
fix broken hearts better than anyone.

Phil.