Chris,
Rhonda is giving you real words of wisdom here.  Please consider them.  We
waited three years before we even began trying to have children and I am so
glad that we waited.  Children can be a blessing, but they are a lot of
work.  Then, you have no idea what the personality of that child will
be.  Think of the struggles that Phil and I have had with our kids.  Do you
think that you could handle that with everything that you already have on
your plate.  Once a child is conceived, it is here for the long haul.  You
can't just walk away.  Please consider Rhonda's words here.  They were
given in love from someone who knows.
Kathy



At 01:56 AM 2/15/2005, you wrote:
>Yes! indeed,  one does have to be creative when it comes to sex! and
>speaking from a woman's point of view, sometimes I was just so tired, babies
>and small children often wake in the middle of the night, cry for hours
>teething, or because of an ear infection, and Mom is usually the one they
>want!
>
>I love my girls, but we had Jena  11 months after we were married, *I had
>all the old ladies in the church inquiring about the dat I was married* I
>wish we had waited a few years.
>Learn how to be two first, before you become three.
>Take time to talk to each other, learn how to disagree, how to give each
>other time alone when that is what is needed, learn how to be sillent when
>angry words are all you can think of saying,
>enjoy the one you have promised to love, and  later on,  think of children,
>no need to rush!
>
>Rhonda
>
>
>
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