Rhonda and Sandy,
Thank you for your kind words.
Yes, it was quite ablow, a hurt and I just couldn't believe I was hearing
that from my wife.  Ireally hard a hard time for a while with my anger.  I
loved her dearly yet I couldn't stand her at the same time.  Only when I
began to pray for her did the Lord heal my heart. Sicne that time, the Lord
has really changed us both.  We are now quite good friends.  I pray everyday
for her as well as for the rest of my family.
It was a learning experience for me but I certainly grew in my faith and
dependence on the Lord.  In hard times we are drawn closer to the Lord.
When we reach our road's end, we turn to the Lord. He has surely blessed in
my life.  He has made me a better father, a better and more understanding
and caring person.  So I praise Him for it all and just ask Him to use me to
bless others and help me never forget from where He has brought me.

Rhonda, I pray for you and Ben and your family.  I pray fo Ben's healing and
for a job.  We stand firmly with you.

Ned