Rhonda,
It's too bad that, even though your dad asks for advice, he doesn't seem to
take it.  I'm just so amazed at how you have gotten through so much stress
on so many fronts.
God bless,
Kathy

At 07:45 PM 4/28/2005, you wrote:
>It does help, especially hearing those talk who once had a serious problem
>as my mom does! it's just so hard, my dad calls asking "Rhonda, what should
>I do?" it's so sad, he feels so out of control, as we all do.  My mom
>doesn't think she has a problem,  but she is controled by  her desire to
>have the  very thing that  has almost killed her twice!
>The one thing I heard at this group, is something I knew... but well, I
>guess it was something I needed to hear again, we can't change someone else!
>no amount of trying, no special thing that we need to do, if only we could
>even figure that thing out,
>and so we turn to God,
>I appreciate your prayers,
>thanks,
>Rhonda