I think alot of it is that she seen her parents fight when she was
growing up and so instead of fighting she just don't talk. But, that's just
as bad in my opinion. My dad told her before they got married that he
wasn't going to fight like her parents did. I don't know why she can't say
the words I'm sorry. Maybe she hasn't heard them growing up. I don't know
but I don't think it is much of an excuse. It looks like after what she
seen her parents go through she would want to talk things out. Pray for me
today as I ride with her to Louisville to see my counselor and let her help
me joob search and brainstorm. Then I will be going to my friends house. I
just hope she doesn't say something stupid infront of my counselor to
embarrass me.
Amy
----- Original Message -----
From: Brad D <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2005 12:36 AM
Subject: Re: Prayer
> Amy,
>
> Your posts are too long??? Nonsense, you ought have seen mine in the past.
> they are duzies for which I'm not known as Baba baba baba
> bababaababababababababling Brad for nothing. I suggested such because
> sometimes when someone does something out of character, and in a sincere
> moment, it can break down a wall of bricks. Sounds like your mom has
> something that is really bothering her, some sort of issue she is not
> dealing with that is causing issue with her relationships. I pray god
> restores the relationships and situation. Do not worry about being too
> long, that is partly why we are here to be a sounding board and pray
> accordingly.
>
> Brad
>
>
>
> At 07:24 PM 2/2/2005, you wrote:
> > Well, I don't think that will work. Number one she acts like
nothing is
> >wrong now and for me to do that would probably just stirr it up again.
> >Number two, she is the kind of person that don't like to hug much. I
give
> >her one ever once in a while though. I am just staying quite mostly
unless
> >she asks me something. I know people think I'm being awful quite but I
> >still feel hurt and don't know how to act so I go along with her and act
> >like nothing is wrong for the most part. I'm leaving tomorrow to stay
the
> >weekend with a friend. I wont be back til Sunday. My Dad is also going
to
> >be gone away to a tractor pull. I worry alot about my Dad and how much
more
> >he will take from her. I'm afraid something is going to happen soon.
Maybe
> >I'm wrong for feeling this way but I kind of wish it would go on and
happen
> >so that I can move on and get out of being in the middle. I'm already
> >thinking about where would I go, who would I go with? My Mom told me a
long
> >time ago that I would go with my Dad if something ever happen meaning
that I
> >would choose him. She is probably right. At this point I don't know how
to
> >feel toward her. I'm trying not to say too much to her because I don't
know
> >what she is going to take the wrong way. Thinks for listening. Sorry if
my
> >posts are too long.
> >
> >Amy
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: Brad D <[log in to unmask]>
> >To: <[log in to unmask]>
> >Sent: Wednesday, February 02, 2005 6:23 PM
> >Subject: Re: Prayer
> >
> >
> > > Amy,
> > >
> > > What about putting your heart at her mercy. Walk up to her and say
"Mom? I
> > > know things have been rough for you lately, and we've had some
> >differences,
> > > but I just want you to know I love you so very much". And then give
her a
> > > big hug. Sometimes parents need hugs of reassuring too, only they
won't
> > > tell you that... we'll deny it oh yeah, but we love them nonetheless.
What
> > > ya think?
> > >
> > > Brad
> > >
> > >
> > > At 06:25 AM 2/2/2005, you wrote:
> > > >Vicki,
> > > > I don't know exactly how things are now. Yesterday my Mom kind
of
> >acted
> > > >like nothing happened. So, I just kind of go along with her and
answer
> > > >questions that she asks me but I don't say much more than what I have
> >too.
> > > >I can't forget that this has happened. My parents are still getting
> >along
> > > >the same. They talk a little but not a whole lot and Mom still
sleeps on
> > > >the couch. I don't know how to react right now. I feel so sad
inside
> > > >because it hurts so much and I don't know what is going to happen
next.
> >I'm
> > > >afraid to talk to her at all. All I know to do is keep praying.
I've
> >cried
> > > >quite alot when I'm alone but I can't help it. I love my parents and
> >they
> > > >have done so much for me and went through alot with me.
> > > >
> > > >Amy
> > > >----- Original Message -----
> > > >From: Vicki and The Rors <[log in to unmask]>
> > > >To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > > >Sent: Tuesday, February 01, 2005 6:02 PM
> > > >Subject: Re: Prayer
> > > >
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> > > > > Amy,
> > > > >
> > > > > How are things now. Have been praying for you.
> > > > >
> > > > > Vicki
> > > > >
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