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I use my GP doctor for my pelvic exams/pap smear. I've found it usually goes
smoothly if I ask for the following:
1) Plastic utensils instead of metal ones which can be cold and make my
spasticity worse. If they have to use metal, ask that they warm them up
first.
2) Have a female do the exam - just my preference as I've found female doctors
more intuitive than male doctors in this regard. Of course I have friends
who swear by their male doctors so this is a personal thing.
3) Make sure they have a nurse there - she can help hold your legs if she
needs to - if she grips too hard, just tell her.
4) Tell them if it hurts -- they may be able to change something or it may
indicate something's wrong -- you need to communicate frankly with them.
If you want more specific details or suggestions, please email me off-list to
spare the men on this list any further embarrassment.
Kat
On Wednesday 11 May 2005 10:42 pm, Joy Welan wrote:
> Linda and everyone else,
>
> Can I ask how you found your OB-GYN? I don't mean to gross out the guys on
> the list, but I just went for my first pelvic exam and pap smear this past
> winter, and it was an extremely painful and unpleasant experience. The
> gynecologist I went to had no idea how to handle the spasticity and lack of
> range of motion in my legs. I had a really hard time getting up on the
> table, and I just couldn't get in the right position, since it's really
> painful for me to move my legs away from the midline of my body. I don't
> think I got a thorough exam, and it's not an experience I'm looking forward
> to repeating, but I know it's important, especially since cervical and
> ovarian cancer run in my family. Is there some sort of resource that helps
> people find doctors who are knowledgeable about dealing with people with
> disabilities? For most things I can go to a "normal" doctor, but this just
> didn't work out. Any tips would be much appreciated.
>
> ~Joy~
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