Dear Rhonda,

I don't blame you for having anxiety as I know what you are going through.
It is certainly normal to have anxiety when we worry about our loving spouses.

I'm praying for you and Ben.

Love,
Pat Ferguson

At 10:27 AM 10/20/04, you wrote:
>Thanks, I am sure everything will be fine! I just go through anxious
>moments!
>today I am better!
>Rhonda
>----- Original Message -----
>From: "Pat Ferguson" <[log in to unmask]>
>To: <[log in to unmask]>
>Sent: Wednesday, October 20, 2004 11:25 AM
>Subject: Re: Ben
>
>
> > Rhonda,
> >
> > I'm praying for Ben. What brad told you is true. This kind of thing is not
> > uncommon for diabetics.
> >
> > Vernon had laser surgery in 2001 on his left eye, and he still has some
> > trouble with his depth perception but the laser surgery did help. I was
> > sitting right there with him when they did it. It's not painful at all,
>and
> > they didn't have to put him to sleep at all.
> >
> > I'm praying for the job situation, too. They need to be more understand
>and
> > they need to be loving.
> >
> > I'm praying for you also.
> >
> > Love ya,
> > Pat Ferguson
> > At 11:54 AM 10/19/04, you wrote:
> > >Ben went to the eye doctor today, he has cataracts on both eyes! and
>damage
> > >to the back of both eyes, they will need to do some lazer treatments
>before
> > >they can remove the cataracts! the first treatment is next Tuesday!
> > >we are still concerned about his job...
> > >all those what if thoughts are trying to invade.
> > >what if... he looses his job, what about insurance for all this
>medication,
> > >and for the eye treatments and lazer surgery,
> > >and what will we do,
> > >Ben is having  trouble seeing now, he has to get up close to a computer
> > >screen,
> > >I am trying to be positive, but I am not doing too well,
> > >he seems to worried, I didn't go in with him so am not really sure what
>the
> > >doctor actually said,
> > >pray for us,
> > >thanks!
> > >Rhonda
> >