Amy,

    I am Bobby, one of the older people on this list. I took a summer
Workshop on Cerbral Palsy as part of my doctoral work at U of Texas Austin. So I know
enough to be ignorant

Ken is correct, take your victories as they come and enjoy both your
children. I now have grandchildren and they are God's gifts. It is hard to parent a
special needs child ( a huge understatement!)

Hang in there.

Bobby Greer