Hey, Shelly

First of all, please don't leave the list so soon.  As I'm sure Phil will
tell you on or off list not all of us agree with him and that is not a
requirement to stay around.  Anyone can say whatever they want or believe as
long as it's polite and reasonable, not attacking each other. (Despite the
way Kerri and I tease each other, we've written off list and agree it's all
in fun and that if one ever thinks the other goes over the line we'll knock
it off.)

I've written to Phil before on and off the list that I am concerned that
some of his opinions are not the opinions of most medical, psychiatric or
psychological professionals, including Christian ones.  And I'm sure he
would never want you to second guess any treatment that has brought you
peace and relief.

As I've also written just recently in response to a devotional Kerri posted,
the LORD wants us to intentionally hold onto and remember the good memories
in our lives, but there are others He helps us to let go.  However, as you
said, it isn't that easy to do.  The LORD uses professionals to help us deal
with things and He is in whatever brings us true healing and peace.

Paul