Kathy,

I am very glad you felt like you could share something that personal with us
and you know everyone will be praying with you.  You are right.  It is just
more focused attack by the Enemy.  Everything you have been facing
ultimately comes to the marriage relationship.  Such marital conflicts do
not bring out the worst in people, it brings out the woundedness in people.
Locating the woundedness, exposing the lies which the Enemy is using against
us, and experiencing the healing power of the Lord is the only solution.  It
isn't the marriage relationship that is suffering, in other words, it is
each person individually.  Bringing healing to the woundedness of each
person brings healing to the relationship.  You can always share your
feelings hear.

Phil.