I can't believe that either, Mag, but that's what she says in her new book.
I know because I've read the excerpts.

I have to wonder how can a husband have an affair outside a marriage and a
wife not even suspect it?  Surely, even unconsciously, he leaves *some*
clues.  I believe if a wife doesn't know she's suppressing her knowledge of
it and doesn't want to admit it to herself.  Maybe that's what  Hilary did.

I once got into a relationship with a guy who wasn't married but had another
girlfriend.  I knew about her, and honestly thought she knew about me and
that he'd broken things off with her.  Turns out she didn't and there was an
uproar when she found out.  When I found all this out, I broke it off with
the guy.  Even though he wasn't married and there was no commitment with the
other woman, I didn't feel easy about the whole thing. I like things to be
honest and above-board.

Kat

----- Original Message -----
From: "Magenta Raine" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Sunday, June 08, 2003 7:29 PM
Subject: Re: Ironies


> Katy, bill had other affairs before Monica. I cannot believe she didn't
know.
>  She's a smart woman, surely there must have been signs.
>
> Mag (who knew something was going on with my ex, but it was still a shock
> when he confessed).
>
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