try botox, if you can find a doc that knows what they
are doing.
it does help.
--- "Cleveland, Kyle E." <[log in to unmask]>
wrote:
> I think much of the resentment from both Laura and
> the kid's angle is
> youth--both mine and Laura's and the kids.  The kids
> are too young to really
> grasp what's going on with Dad, and I'm sure that
> Laura, subconciously,
> feels short-changed in that she only had a few years
> of marriage before her
> "man" started falling apart.  Remember, I was 33
> when we married, so a lot
> of life had been already lived that she didn't get
> to share.  Her leukemia
> is in remission, too, so other than having to be
> careful about communicable
> disease, she has no physical encumbrances.  It's not
> something she dwells
> on, but I do think she gets irritated at my tacit
> requests for her to pick
> up the slack.
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: ken barber [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> Sent: Monday, May 12, 2003 1:18 PM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Re: Downhill ride (long response)
>
>
>  kyle, judy may be different than laura. but, i
> don't
> sense too much of what you described. and bj at 16
> seems to know and understand. i am sure that there
> are
> bouts of resentment, but, i do not sense them as
> ongoing.


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