I just had a crazy thought that's wroth a try, if you were wearing
either pants or shorts, I would try to insert some Velcro to attach your
underwear to your pants, so you can have one thing to pull down and up.
When you wash clothes, you would just tare them apart.

Thanks,
Anthony

-----Original Message-----
From: St. John's University Cerebral Palsy List
[mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Linda Wagner
Sent: Monday, August 12, 2002 5:48 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: Two Things

I have to agree with Mag, Kathy Jo.  If anything happened to you at
Cornerstone that was sexual in nature - either verbal or physical - I
wouldn't consider that a safe place to be!  You said some people said
it was abuse and others didn't.  If YOU felt you were abused, then it
was abuse - period.

As for your underwear, many women go without both day and night
although I don't see how it is comfortable during the day!  If you
want more independence and not wearing underwear helps you, and you
feel comfortable then go for it.  If you do not, then don't...just
continue to get help.  Although, if you wear a skirt and are like
me...going without during the day could give folks around you a "free
show" since I tend to not always sit with my legs close together and
if I fall as I walk that skirt would go flying and I'd moon everyone!

Linda

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From: [log in to unmask]
To: [log in to unmask],
Subject: RE: Two Things
Date: Mon, 12 Aug 2002 13:11:11 -0700

>Hi C-Palsy List Members:
>
>I went to a Camp this summer where I was abused
>over and over sexually.  I felt safe there and
>was safe.  I still want to go to Cornerstone.
>Some have told me it was abuse and some say it
>wasn't abuse.
>
>Over the weekend , I just wore a skirt (no
>underwear) during the day so I could go to the
>bathroom alone.  I feel dirty.  it is fine at
>night.
>
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