i do not know what gets into folks that loose sight of what they have. many
people trade gold for lead, don't even realize they are getting much less
until maybe later. then some are literally drove away. there are both.
my ex was very cruel mentally. but, i said "i do" and let her know i would
not leave her, so she left me and benjamin and joined the navy of all
things. desert storm scared the hell out of her. she came out after one tour
of duty. the military actually goes into war zones and it was no party. we
don't know where she is now for 11 years.
-----Original Message-----
From: Trisha Cummings [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Monday, June 03, 2002 11:56 AM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: current events
I feel sorry for Amber's father. He left the wife and child - who worshiped
the ground he walked for a empty headed, self-centered troubled, manizing
female - who divorced months after they got married. He now lives with his
father, in his own world. How very sad. I think he buys all the stuff to try
and fill the hole.
Trisha
> I do believe my ex, Michele, has found happiness--she's married a young
> Brit
> (say 25, or so). Her refusal to admit that she needs to stay on her
> medication is frustrating for all, though. That's the worst thing about
> many mentally ill folk--their delusion that they are normal and the rest
> of
> the world is skewed. Sad.
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Barber, Kenneth L. [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> Sent: Monday, June 03, 2002 11:10 AM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Re: current events
>
>
> i will say this, i do not even hate my ex. i am sorry for her. it is a
> miserable life that she must live not loving anybody, not even herself.
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Cleveland, Kyle E. [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> Sent: Monday, June 03, 2002 11:04 AM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Re: current events
>
>
> Trish'
>
> Thank you for the insightful note. I'll take your encouraging words under
> advisement.
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Trisha Cummings [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> Sent: Monday, June 03, 2002 10:53 AM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Re: current events
>
>
> I don't see what the difference is - one should voluntarily pay for one
> kids
> - you do for the ones that live with - infact if you consider how much the
> cost per month - child support usually looks piddly next it - I get $250 a
> month Amber, and put out at least $700. I get nothing for Alex and put out
> the same amount. I arrive at this by dividing the house, utilities and
> food
> by three - then adding individual costs. Imagine the mess I would be in if
> I
> didn't work 3 jobs. And this says nothing about the time spent running
> them
> around and vacations etc. Why does it matter that the state set limit? If
> you checked out the number kids who never get child support like Alex,
> perhaps you would understand the necessity for state set limits. The sad
> truth is many people value money over people. Hate your ex-wife by all
> means
> but don't begrudge you child your support - finanacially or emotionally.
> It
> is not the child fault.
>
> Trisha
>
>
> > Biggest raise I've ever had in my life, but college starts this fall
> > <sigh>.
> > Oh well, at least it's Dad's decision to open his wallst, and not the
> > State
> > doing it for him!
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: BG Greer, PhD [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> > Sent: Monday, June 03, 2002 10:19 AM
> > To: [log in to unmask]
> > Subject: Re: current events
> >
> >
> > In a message dated 6/3/02 8:13:33 AM, [log in to unmask] writes:
> >
> > >eh, congratsa kyle...
> >
> > Me too, Kyle. Now you, Laura and the kids will have more "cheese" to go
> > around.
> >
> > Bobby
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