Yes, you're very well-off right now, and if I were you, I'd stay there until
the mortgage is paid off, as you said.  Hopefully by then your nephew will
have gained some maturity and compassion.

Kat


> The whole things makes me mad as hell, but I am still thinking that I have
a
> place to sleep tonight, and there are a lot of people who don't.  I feel
like
> I don't want to forget that things could be so much worse.  Things are
worse
> for some people right on this list, and I'm aware of that.  I just want to
> get what I need and I am not trying to take anything away from anyone.