----- Original Message -----
  I want to add something here that I have learned to do in my life, once
you decide on a plan and a goal to work towards, you have to definitely
stick to whatever you decide or nothing would get done otherwise.  A good
game plan is to give yourself a limited amount of time to decide what you
want, and after your given deadline you must do whatever you end up
deciding.

  Anthony
  From: Emma Gabriella Murphy
  To: [log in to unmask]
  Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2001 7:12 PM
  Subject: Re: The reason I left this list...


  Kathy-Jo, deciding what we want to do and then creating the
  right circumstance, support etc, is ALWAYS in our best
  interests!!  What is it you'd really like to do, and then what
  steps do you need to reach that goal?

  Strength to you, Kathy-Jo,
  emma

  >--- Magenta Raine <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
  >> Kathy Jo, if you want to move out, then move
  >> out. It's your life.
  >>
  >> mag
  >
  >
  >
  >
  >
  >Mag, I don't know if it will be in my best
  >interest......
  >
  >Kathy Jo
  >
  >=====
  >My Ya-Hoo ID:  kathyjopinkus
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