Debcaves wrote:

a retreat to the kitchen out back seemed wise

Had you seen Gosford Park, you would have had no doubt that you would be better off belowstairs than above.  Mrs. R and I had a similar experience (to yours, not his now-exwife the Princess.  We were much happier washing their dishes than talking to their guests.

Ralph

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