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Tropical Source chocolate bars and chocolate chips are made on dedicated
dairy free equipment. I've seen their products in health food stores. They
have a page on the web at http://www.nspiredfoods.com/tropingr.html but
you'll have to contact them about ordering their products.

The Chocolate Emporium also uses dedicated machinery. They can be found
online at www.choclat.com

Steve Carper