Very true, especially if one knows what one wants and how to go about it.
It's just that sometimes it take time to get to that point.  Once one knows
what he wants to achieve it becomes easier to set the goal.  Baby steps are
better than big ones. at first.

        Kathy S.

----- Original Message -----
From: "Anthony Arnold" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2001 9:59 PM
Subject: Re: The reason I left this list...


>   ----- Original Message -----
>   I want to add something here that I have learned to do in my life, once
> you decide on a plan and a goal to work towards, you have to definitely
> stick to whatever you decide or nothing would get done otherwise.  A good
> game plan is to give yourself a limited amount of time to decide what you
> want, and after your given deadline you must do whatever you end up
> deciding.
>
>   Anthony
>   From: Emma Gabriella Murphy
>   To: [log in to unmask]
>   Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2001 7:12 PM
>   Subject: Re: The reason I left this list...
>
>
>   Kathy-Jo, deciding what we want to do and then creating the
>   right circumstance, support etc, is ALWAYS in our best
>   interests!!  What is it you'd really like to do, and then what
>   steps do you need to reach that goal?
>
>   Strength to you, Kathy-Jo,
>   emma
>
>   >--- Magenta Raine <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
>   >> Kathy Jo, if you want to move out, then move
>   >> out. It's your life.
>   >>
>   >> mag
>   >
>   >
>   >
>   >
>   >
>   >Mag, I don't know if it will be in my best
>   >interest......
>   >
>   >Kathy Jo
>   >
>   >=====
>   >My Ya-Hoo ID:  kathyjopinkus
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