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Date: | Wed, 3 Apr 2002 10:17:09 -0500 |
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Unfortunately she will probably not get your message. She will probably just move on to someone new. Sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder to me: unable to set clear and appropriate interpersonal boundaries, emotionally immature, manipulative...
You did the right thing by setting your limits with her. Very sad that a person has to be this way. FWIW the classic childhood for people with BPD is extreme emotional neglect (+/or abuse). Joanne probably hit pretty close to the mark...
Yvonne
>>> [log in to unmask] 04/03/02 07:51AM >>>
My point was that she'll probably think twice before again targeting,
stalking, and attempting to exploit another person with a disability. This
was just an example of exploitation.
In a message dated 4/3/2002 6:23:58 AM Eastern Standard Time,
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> Actually no, that's not Munchausen's, at least not yet, I think. She sounds
> like she's mentally-ill, but I don't think that'd be it. From what you're
> saying, I'd hazard a guess that she's genuinely disabled --mentally-ill --
> and desperately needs someone to be friends with. I also think I detect a
> bit of guilt for how she feels about her severely-disabled sister.
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> All of which does not mean you have to be friends with her. You don't need
> to let her impose on you or use you for her purposes. I once had a
> similiar
> situation and had to frankly tell the other person please not to contact me
> or come around any more. She created a scene, very embarrassing for me,
> but
> it worked.
>
> Kat
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