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On Monday 24 Dec 2001 4:39 am, Betty B wrote:
> In a message dated 12/23/2001 7:18:43 PM Eastern Standard Time,
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> [log in to unmask] writes:
> > Sorry for the lecture. I did not mean to run on like this.
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> They were thought provoking comments. You reminded me of a hearing
> guy I knew at Gallaudet. He was from Philly, and was the son of
> deaf parents and siblings. He wasn't always at the school, but
> because he lived so close, he would come down for certain events.
> He was the only one in his family who was hearing, as I recall. He
> signed better than a few deaf people I know.
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> This is funny to me. The first time I met him, I didn't even know
> he was hearing until the end of the conversation. He signed so
> well that I automatically assumed he was deaf, so I signed the
> whole time. He must have assumed that I was deaf too since I was
> only signing. That happens at times at Gallaudet because there are
> a number of hearing people on campus for various reasons, but one
> or the other person usually discovers that there has been a mutual
> case of "mistaken identity" long before the end of the
> conversation.
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> He was totally assimilated into deaf culture, but seemed to feel
> comfortable in the company of hearing people too. I thought that
> was pretty cool since his whole family was deaf. Maybe that's
> routine for hearing children of deaf parents. I only knew this
> guy, but if it's true generally, that would certainly be consistant
> with the findings about ab kids of pwds.
>
> I mention this because some aspects of deaf culture are ball games
> unto themselves. Hearing children of deaf parents are often the
> interpreters of the family. I'm thinking of the many kinds of
> situations in which these children might find themselves placed,
> and how they might be impacted by their level of responsibility in
> the family.
>
> Betty
Me & Lin were very conscious of these problems when the kids were
young, not wanting to make them into "carers", but I figure we may
have gone a bit too far, 'cos its difficult to get them to do any
chores at all now!!
Cheers
Deri
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