Ken,
I am sure that your dad is with his maker in heaven. You are to be
commended for taking care of things for your mom. My brother, bless him, got
the brunt of the estate work and I did little to help. I had the task of
institutionalizing an alcoholic aunt(Dad's sister) who was living on some
property my parents' had owned and the day after Dad died, the man called my
brother and I in and said that out of respect for my father he had put up
with her, but now she had to go!
Bobby