jean-claude:
> Yes everything can be use by egos to separate ,especially sarcasm!

Maybe 'separate' is just as valid as 'connected'.  ;)

> "spiritual help "  (and not "spirituality ") was  just a word to attempt to
> express a feeling of connectiveness to the whole.

If you felt this connectedness, I doubt that you would be seeking it all the
time, or expecting that others perseverate on it as much as you do.

> something it seems , you will rather choose to  kill in the nest than
> opening up to.

What is the proper response to a line like that???

How about: you win. You're connected and I'm separate and you are good and I
am evil and any questioning of your premises proves exactly that.

Cheers,
Kirt