Howdy all,

First, I must apologize for being away from the list.  I have had a terrible
time with my upper extremities, and typing hurts like hell now.  I don't know
if this is going to go away, but if it doesn't, I will pursue the necessary
alternatives.

Second, I would like to get your input on something, if I may.  I have been
communicating on an AOL message board, and read the following post yesterday.
 I would like to ask you opinion about an appropriate response.  I would be
very grateful.

"I don't know what your particular handicap is. Like everyone, I am sorry you
and everyone with a handicap are denied the abilities afforded the healthiest
(physically, emotionally, mentally, artistically, athletically, etc.) members
of our society... a membership that doesn't include me.

The strength of character, spirit, maturity, humor, and wisdom that comes
from overcoming tremendous obstacles, possessed by most handicapped people,
generally serve as in inspiration to everyone. That this nation is rich
enough to be able to accommodate those members of our families and cultures
in every way we can to make our brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, aunts,
uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, neighbors, etc., lives as
comfortable, rewarding, happy, and productive as possible, is a testimonial
to all.

But, is it possible that some amongst us ask too much? Is it possible that
bitterness from the unfairness of being handicapped causes some handicapped
people to take it out on those not handicapped? Where do we draw the line? To
accommodate people with a fear of heights, should all buildings be only one
story tall? Should millions of precious public education dollars be spent on
one mentally challenged student?"

Again, I am sorry for being so inactive right now.  I miss the daily banter
and wonderful wit.  I love C-PALSY!

Betty