In a message dated 01/15/2001 6:16:06 PM Central Standard Time, [log in to unmask]
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<< Of course we got the cretins who asked if the kids were disabled, or
 suggested we should have been sterilised before "being allowed" to marry,
 but
 these were few.
  >>

    I know this reply is behind , but I was just reminded of my story on this
subject.Everyone including our family was worried about whether I'd be able
to carry the baby ( before AND after birth ).When I wasn't around the wife of
a guy my hubby knew asked, "Is she going to have the baby the "normal" way ?
" You can imagine his reply since he doesn't suffer fools lightly ! LOL He
put her in her place & her husband told her she shouldn't have asked a
question like that.I think that's when I started to despise the word NORMAL..

Karen