well anthony, something good came of it anyway. if you can do all that for
yourself, then great.

-----Original Message-----
From: Anthony Arnold [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Tuesday, January 23, 2001 4:04 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: Looking for a pager


Gary,

This is a good question, something in which I feel we all can learn
something
by.  I feel I have learned a lot myself, I feel my problem was the
attendant's and my own doing because part of the problem was that I helped
him fix up his car and the thing was he was going to let me hold some out of
the pay check to him.  He was also Chinese, so he didn't totally understand
what we were doing and why his car needed to be fixed because it was still
working but taking an hour to get started or he was just leaving it run all
day.  I just wanted to help him out in someway because he's just over here
for computer school.  It taught me to keep my nose out of other's business
but I didn't like waiting to eat while he was trying to get his car started
to come home to help me.  The greatest thing that came out of this, I have
learned that I just need somebody to help me shower and dress because I have
been fine other than that.  I have been even cleaning my house, something I
didn't do before.  However you need to understand, I learn best the harder
the challenge is.

Thanks,
Anthony

In a message dated 1/22/01 10:32:21 PM Central Standard Time,
[log in to unmask] writes:


>
> Hi Anthony!
>
> I know you've had lots of responce from others here, so I know this
> may be a bit after the fact.
>
> I was just wondering, when this person walked out on you, was he reall
> angry with you?  Did he say you owed him money?  Did he have a key to
> your hose, and did you get it back?  Are you afraid of him in any way
> or is it all behind you?
>
> Please understand, I'm not trying to pry here.  It's just that I've
> been doing the personal care attandent thing for a long time, and I've
> been involed in the good, bad, and the augly side of it all.  So I
> only ask these questions because I'm concerned for your safty.
>
> See ya-Gary
>