jean-claude:
> to want to be validated in separating seems to me , an inconscious  desire
> to connect.

So does that mean that you "wanting to be validated" (whatever that's
supposed to mean) in connecting, means that you have an unconscious desire
to separate?

> you are free from any of my expectations . I was not even talking to you in
> the first place .

You are posting to a list with members, no?

> Proper, win, good , evil?? seems hard to appreciate life when seen as a
> contest .and one proper answer.
> you lose more than you think !

Thanks for the insight, jean-claude!

Cheers,
Kirt