Gordon,

As a bachelor of long standing (something we b's need to get the hang of)
let me suggest you go out to as many places as possible that you find
interesting, comfortable (but occasionally try "new" places and experiences
too), and likely to attract people with whom you'd feel good to associate.
Go to get experience and enjoy the event, lower your expectations, and don't
pressure yourself  about finding a woman or the one of your life.  She'll
show up, more likely when you stop looking for her.  Just  be the bright,
charming, decent Gordo we know.

While in my active days I often did events with friends so that became a
lubricant to ease more intimate engagements.  I also often "hunted" without
a companion.  As all hunting: game, terrain, randomness, and risk must be
considered.

Keep moving, keep patient, keep alert.

S.


----- Original Message -----
From: "Gordon Stewart" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Wednesday, October 11, 2000 10:17 PM
Subject: sex life ?


> >>> [log in to unmask] 10/12/00 02:59 >>>
>
> >Gordon asked:
>
>  Dont worry Joy - you'll find someone - Im 31 & have been waiting=20
> "a long long time ago in a galaxy far far away...."
>
> - not necessarily for sex - but thats good - just a good g/friend will do
=
> for starters..
>
> LOL
>
> - I think this is my year - over the last few months im being more =
> self-assure, & confident.. - went out on Tuesday with a group called
> P.H.A.B. (Physically Handicapped Able-Bodied)=20
>
> only a few of us - but we went to a local bar/club etc. - Ive always been
=
> 'scared' (isnt the propper word - but close enuf) of going to pubs/bars =
> etc.. - But on Tuesday - there wern't many people in it..
>
> But i think i'll go back over this weekend - ps - this PHAB group meets =
> every week - & i'll keep going..
>
> Gordon.
>
>