Jan,
When the time is right you will fall in love, then you will see whether
or not that person is abled bodied or disabled. Don't look for any "kind";
look for a person you can talk to laugh with and bare your soul to and enjoy
it . For a very brief period I dated a glamour chick from Holloywood who I
presumed wouldn't give me a second look. We had a ball!!! I did not persue,
but it changed my perspective on myself. You just never know.