Hi Betty,

       Yes, we are, I called and talked to the nurse - who said little
other, than she was fading, and the nurse is glad we are coming.  I just
went thru this two years ago with my friend Pat - who died at 48 from breast
cancer - she put up a 6 year fight, and bless her heart she came to see me
graduate from college. I am glad your Mom has had so little time to be sick,
not that I happy she has this - but thankfully it has not been years, even
tho months is really to long. The important thing now - she is surrounded by
people who can let her go and she knows she is loved and cared about. There
are stages and if she is ready to go - everyone else has to jump on the same
wagon. Amber understands and doesn't want her to suffer. I just wish we had
taken that kodak moment - with the two of them some months ago.

                             Hugs Sweetie!!!
                                 Trisha

> Trisha and Amber are going to stop by to see her this afternoon, and I'm
> very
> glad.  Mom has such a special place in her heart for Amber.  I know that
> she
> loves her and since I didn't have children, I'm glad that my friend's
> child
> has brought "grandmother feelings" to my Mom's heart.
>
> Thanks Miss Amber.  I love you and I know Mom does too.  And thank you
> Trisha, for giving my Mom a chance to see you both again.
>
> In a message dated 06/19/2000 12:28:52 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
> [log in to unmask] writes:
>
> > Betty, I'm truly happy for you for your acceptance and the peace and
> strength
> >  you have found.  Our prayers are with you.
> >
> >  Elaine and family
> >