betty don't even try. they don't want you to reciprocate. you have heard
that it is more blessed to give than recieve, but think about this. if
someone does not recieve, we will keep the others from the blessing of
giving. it took me a long time to realize that recieving gracefully was
giving in a way too. give what you can from others but let them give to you
too. when you pray ask the Lord to bless them and their family.



We really have terrific neighbors who stop by every few days and will do
things we can't do.  They have been consistent with this and I don't know
what I could possibly do to reciprocate.