Betty,
I'm sending hugs and love your way.

And maybe an imprudent question; is the chemo really going to help your mom,
or just prolong her suffering?  I hear that many people go through all this
only to die a few months later.  Your Mom does have the option, I think, of
deciding not to go through chemo-hell.  Tell me to mind my own business, or
whatever, but this is just my opinion, and may be totally off base.

xxx
mag