Gretchen's diversionary officer basically told Gretchen to return Friday with a plan she is going to follow and live by, did I mention her case officer is a Christian? Anyhow, otherwise, she would make the decisions for Gretchen. I had a talk with Gretchen today, because she asked to talk with me, and she wants to move back in but both times she talked about it, she said it was because of her children. She did not sound sincere to me but then I don't want to go to prison for 5 years either. I told Gretchen this morning, that we would have to come to some sort of agreement about the way she is living because, not only could we not take living with her and guessing about what she is doing every day, but it was totally unacceptable for the children. She also said she would start praying with me on a regular bases starting tomorrow night. So, we shall see. I am not expecting her to be perfect but I do demand she fulfill her responsibilities as a parent no matter what. Phil. Has He Ever Crossed Your Mind? www.SafePlaceFellowship.com