In a message dated 9/11/2005 4:54:57 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,
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That's a  rather personal question, don't you think?  And a visual I'd prefer
not  to have, thank you very much.



Certainly it's a personal question. But if one can't ask personal questions
of one's friends, of whom can one ask them? Especially if nobody else ever has
 to see them, and the questionee can lie (or tell the truth) with impunity.

Ralph