sis jabou

poor wife

she believed him to her death bed

may her soul rest in peace - she was a real lady

who knows maybe she knew and never said a thing to suturah the man

only God knows but this is a true and real life story i can personally vouch for

habib



>From: Jabou Joh <[log in to unmask]>
>Reply-To: The Gambia and related-issues mailing list              <[log in to unmask]>
>To: [log in to unmask]
>Subject: Re: question/Habib
>Date: Sat, 28 Feb 2004 13:59:08 EST
>
>In a message dated 2/28/04 12:25:52 PM Central Standard Time,
>[log in to unmask] writes:
>
>
> > I know this american man who  for all his married life had another "friend"
> > right here in Dc just miles from his wife's home . he always told his wife
> > he was on a secret government mission -worked for the FBI -i knew later after
> > his wife died-
> >
> >
>
>Now there is an original and creative cover up!
>
>I am also of the opinion that if the women have no problem with being
>co-wives, that is fine, but that is also easier said than done because our society
>tends to encourage friction between co-wives with friends and even family
>members chipping their contribution to the problem. Personally, I would not give
>myself a heart attack over a man because you suffer, not him and if women realize
>this, they can save themselves a lot of grief and each carry on with their
>lives as opposed to spending good energy on friction.
>You are right, most men will lie about this.
>I believe that this is why Islam does allow for multiple partners so long as
>they are official and the man can treat them equally, which is also another
>rule to make sure that one considers it carefully before doing it, but most men
>in our society do not consider marrying multiple wives carefully, nor can most
>of them really afford it and consequently, there is a lot of heartache for
>all involved.
>
>
>Jabou
>
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