Chris, Just remember that true friends also have a responsibility to correct someone when they are in error. I don't know what has been happening privately, off list, but the comments made on list have been made in love. You may not have liked what was said, but that doesn't mean that they were in error. They are trying to help you out. A doctor may have to give you a shot or an opeeration, which hurts, but it is for your good. Sometimes friends must do the same because they care. It is our biblical responsibility to do so. If we don't, God will hold us accountable. Kathy ________________________________________________________________ The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today!