In a message dated 1/4/2004 4:00:03 PM Eastern Standard Time, [log in to unmask] writes: You said high-heeled "**** me shoes" was a girl code. so I figured that your wife not wearing high shoes was ... well ... sort of ... a guy code. Best wishes, Single-Handed Well, it appears you're correct, in addition to being right. Me, too. Mary Palm and her five daughters send regards. Ralph