You guys, there is definatly some advantages to being single. -----Original Message----- From: Michael H Collis [mailto:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Wednesday, October 02, 2002 9:41 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Asdis, I know the problem you face (boy, do I ever), and to be honest, I don't think there is an answer to the question. I thought, recently, I had found "the one" I would eventually marry. I was even shopping for a ring, but due to circumstances, she felt it was for the best to call off the relationship. She was disabled with C.P., too. After this relationship, I've stopped looking. I'm going to be single for the rest of my life, I guess. And there's nothing wrong with being single, as I think Kat and Mag will tell you. It's a lot better than being married to the wrong person... I'm 47 years old, and if I haven't been married by now, there's no use in me even trying... -----Original Message----- From: St. John's University Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Asdis Jenna Astradsdottir Sent: Wednesday, October 02, 2002 5:16 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Hi Gang, I need to talk to you. I do not know how but I am trying to tell you. As you know I divorced my ex two years and tree months ago. I have some difficulties with trying to get a boyfriend and I am lonely. If someone wants to know me on the Internet I try not to tell him about my disabilities but when I tell him about my wheelchair he does not want to talk to me any more. Can you tell me how to get a date? I do not want to be alone in my life. I want a partner who will be with me in life. How can I tell the man that I am a woman with feelings, beautiful woman and very smart? Can you help me? Thank you Asdis