Jen- I feel very bad for you, but it will work out & she will know you are her mother. I did daycare for 6 years for a little girl whose mom worked full time because their other child was so seveerely handicapped ( CHARGE). I had her 44-48 hours a week from 2 weeks old on. She went through a time where she cried for me & was only good for me...but I think her mom was always rushed & nervous with her & very tired all the time from trying to do it all. It was very hard for her to see how well she responded to me--1 side took her quilt at leaving her away, but she questioned her mothering skills. We talked & she made a routine with her...laying on the bed 7 cuddeling when they got home for 15 min before doing anything else. It became their special time together & they both looked forward to it. Then they did the same as part of the bed time routine. On a bad day for either of them it still works & that little girl s 9 & mom is expecting a third child in a few weeks. Rest, relax 7 make a fun time for you both. That bond is there & it will grow. you might ask the woman to concentrate on things in the house so you can concentrate on the baby with out pressure-----good luck, it will work out! Joy