>> I will be negative if i was seeing that and either looking at all the >> ground who doen't have holes in it .or drinking away my fears of being >> hurt. saying : isn't it beautifull all this solid concrete around the >> hole ? > >The trick is to look at the ugly and the beautiful at the same time, >and to be able to see both. > >Most people (especially in the "counter-culture" world) seem to be >stuck on looking at, thinking about, talking about, the ugly. > >I think this has something to do with guilt, or class background, or >some sort of protection from adversity or something. People I know >who have faced a terminal illness, starvation, other encounters with >death and horror, seem to understand this more intuitively. Old >people often do, too. > >Justifying this as some sort of responsible civic duty is, in my >opinion, just an excuse to continue to muddle around in negativity. i folow you 100 percent, i completly agree. I suppose i had to emphasis on one side and you on the other one because of where we are coming from. I have been in denial for long so now i need to learn to face the ugly. May be for you it is the oposite Together and joined we are making a perfect world . Thank you jean-claude > >Love Liza