Dear Miss Pat,

We have been and will be praying for you and Mr.Vernon. you guys need 
to just talk things out. I can't really picture Mr.Vernon being mad 
at you even if you have different priorities and he doesn't fully 
understand you.

Were your ovaries removed with the hysterectomy also? If they were, 
some mild form of hormone replacements might be indicated for a while 
because the ovaries still produce hormones even after menopause and 
if they are removed, this stops abruptly. Would hormone patches be an 
option? they helped my mom and had none of the side effects that 
other hormone replacement therapy gave her.

Keep close to the Lord both of you and we will keep you in our prayers.

love and hugs,

Doris

At 04:54 PM 8/25/2009 -0500, you wrote:
>Hi Everyone,
>
>Since my Hysterectomy, I've been experiencing a lot of anxiety and 
>depression. I just don't seem like the same person I was before the 
>surgery, and things that I use to enjoy doing, I don't enjoy now, or 
>I'm too anxious to do them.
>
>Vernon doesn't understand that I don't want to go fishing at the 
>River which is over 100 miles from here. We have to take the Motor 
>Home, and pull the Pontoon boat, and he told me last winter, that he 
>didn't think that the Motor Home would be able to handle putting the 
>pontoon boat in the water. I'm quite anxious about this, and I told 
>him, that if someone sighted would go with us the first time, that 
>would be great. We don't have anyone sighted to take with us. He 
>wants to leave on Friday night, and go to the river, I want to leave 
>on Saturday night. He thinks I don't have any confidence in him, and 
>it isn't that, at all. If something happened, I would feel awful. 
>I'm going to have to tell him that I'm a little more anxious about 
>things now than I was before my surgery. I thought he new that, but 
>it seems he doesn't understand. I don't know what to do, and I think 
>he's mad at me now.
>
>Please pray for me. I don't want to have to go on hormone meds 
>again, this will be the third time, if I do
>
>Thanks much for praying.
>
>Love and Blessings,
>
>Pat Ferguson.