Hi Lawrence,
I don't know how old you are, but I particularly had this problem when I was
in high school. It was a public school, and I just couldn't be interested
in the same things that others were interested in. That's when I decided to
dig into my music and give myself to it. So, if you have a particular
interest, job or field, put your time and attention into it.
I have been on this list now for almost eight years, and in times when I was
so down and depressed, I wrote to certain ones personally about my needs,
and asked them to pray with me about them. The Lord broght me through the
crises and I was able to go on.
Tell us about your situation there, Lawrence, how old are you, what are your
interests, dreams and struggles. If you would feel more comfortable writing
to one or two of us, I'm sure you will find listening ears, and praying
hearts and spirits.
Jesus has a unique place for you in His plan that only you can fill.
As you ask him to show you what He wants for you, believe him for the
patience to wait until he unfolds His plan to you.
So, if you want, let us know how we can help.
god bless.
Vinny
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From: "JULIE MELTON" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Saturday, May 07, 2005 8:37 PM
Subject: Re: Fw: Making Friends
> Lawrence,
>
> I like Vicki's points here. I would add that one thing I do is to ask
what
> a person's interests are and then ask them quesitons about those
interests.
> For example, if someone says they like sports, ask about the kind of
sports
> and whether they play, watch games, or what. If they have a spouse or
kids,
> ask how they are doing. That's a concrete way to show you care about them
> as a person and are trying to be friendly. Also, if you need help from
that
> person, try to find a way to help in return, even if it's just praying or
> taking them out for coffee.
>
> I hope these thoughts are helpful to you, and I wish you the best in
making
> friends. It can be hard as a blind person to find someone to talk to,
> especially in a crowd, but sometimes God has sent that person to me
despite
> the crowd.
>
> I'll pray for you in your efforts to make more friends.
> JulieMelton
> visit me at
> www.heart-and-music.com
> Keep smiling!
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Vicki and The Rors" <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Sent: Saturday, May 07, 2005 4:16 PM
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> > Hi Laurence,
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> > Intended this to go to echurch also. So if you already read your copy,
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> > I hope I have your name right. I think all of us struggle with feeling
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> > isolated and like we have no friends. I realize I'm speaking in general
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> > terms here. Maybe others will also have some comments. But one thing =
> > that comes to mind is something my mother often told me when I was =
> > growing up. She'd say, "Now if you want friends you have to learn to be
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> > a friend." I have often found that true for me. In fact, there is lots
=
> > about friendship in the book of Proverbs. For example,
> > "A man who has friends must himself be friendly," from Proverbs 18:24.
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> > This of course also applies to women too. You're not alone in feeling =
> > isolated. From time to time we all do, to one degree or another. Your
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> > particular circumstances and your surroundings may not make it easy for
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> > you either.
> >
> > Vicki
> >
> >
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> > Sent: Friday, May 06, 2005 10:17 PM
> > Subject: Re: [ECHURCH-USA] Pray for Steve Please
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> > can any body tell me how can i make friends
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> > please thank you
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