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VIRGIE UNDERWOOD <[log in to unmask]>
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The Electronic Church <[log in to unmask]>
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Thu, 5 Jun 2008 20:00:21 -0400
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Hi Reeva,
I am praying for Jo.

Virgie
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Reeva Parry" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Thursday, June 05, 2008 11:35 AM
Subject: Prayer Request From Jo Billard:


> From: "Jo" <[log in to unmask]>
>
>
> A few weeks ago, on my pastor's advice, I told my husband I didn't want 
> any contact whatsoever from him, other than business-related things like 
> our income
> tax returns and the like, and he responded by making condescending 
> comments on the lists we're both on and then going off line, ostensibly to 
> let me heal.
>
> He came back online last week, and now his campaign to bring me down has 
> escalated. He brought up a topic on one list that was supposed to have 
> been closed,
> because of the pain it was causing me, and then he kept saying over and 
> over that he wanted to end the topic because of the hurt it was causing 
> me. He
> finally unsubscribed from that list, under pressure from both men and 
> women who were disgusted with his behaviour. This morning he sent me 
> another private
> e-mail, and in it he stated how my ignoring his posts was hurting him, and 
> if I didn't give him an answer concerning whether I was bothered by his 
> being
> on the other list, which he co-moderates, he'd put me on nomail status. I 
> had to answer him because I don't want to go nomail, especially without my 
> consent,
> and if I'd blocked him I'd have been nomail without even knowing it. Thank 
> God he doesn't own that particular list, but I can't take any more. One 
> more
> incident like that and he wins, and I'm off that list, no matter how much 
> I depend on the other members. I don't have any more energy to keep 
> fighting
> him, and I can't block him until the apparent tax mix-up we seem to be 
> having gets straightened out, and his remaining belongings are shipped 
> back to him.
>
> He always wins, and it almost looks like he wins again. God, give me 
> strength!
>
>
> Jo Billard 

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