Mag,

Thanks to you and Denise for being explicit, to Renee for starting the
thread.  Even an ancient as I appreciate information and reassurance.

For me, in love and sex, there's more to the dynamics than techniques.  Each
tryst turns on its own axis, yet flows with and into the greater rhythms of
our lives.  We start in desire and hopeful good intentions.  Hopefully we
learn from the results.  Communication, candor, and tact between lovers
makes being vulnerable, intimate, and caring for the other the more
worthwhile and helpful.

Essentially for me love's the art, sex the act.  The art of the act creates
the orgasm.  Especially as I age.

Steve


Date:         Tue, 20 Apr 1999 18:25:12 EDT
Reply-To:     [log in to unmask]
From:         Magenta Raine <[log in to unmask]>
Subject:      Re: Women's Sexual Response

> Before your explanation I thought the Female Big O depended on the
whether.
>
steve, i don't know if you're kidding or not, but if that is true, glad i
could help.  even with the best lover, sometimes it just doesn't take, but
the lady can still enjoy the journey and when it becomes apparent she isn't
going to make a goal, she should gently inform her partner so as not to
blame
him.

mag