Hi Joy,

Sorry I didn't write back sooner but it has been rather hectic for me.  As
for your questions about the prom:  I being a male just took a tuxedo.  As
for your case I would suggest wearing something you like, regardless of
what some people think.  So what if the gown looks hideous if you sit down
The most important thing is that you have fun.  If you are going with a
friend you might want to ask him/her what they think is most appropriate.
I remember my junior and senior proms, I went to.  I was a nervous wreck
but everything worked out.

Jan


- Joy - wrote:

> Hi guys,
>
> I have my first prom coming up in a few months, and with that comes the
> dilemma of finding the perfect dress.  I was wondering how you all
> handle formal dress.  Most gowns look hideous sitting down, what with
> all of the extra material.  Also, they weren't meant to bend in the
> middle.  Any solutions?  Ack, to be a guy... just throw on some pants
> and a shirt.  You don't even have to think about shoes matching, just
> wear the standard black pair! <g> Thanks...
>
> ~Joy~